- 11:05 _Stuff White People Like_ trades on internalized racial superiority... #
- 14:55 Mary Murphy teaches us all to embrace our inner "Wicked Witch of the West" voice. How I love Mary Murphy!!! #
- 14:39 Sometimes, I don't think I am an activist anymore... but then I realize, I am simply searching for something to be active about. #
- 14:39 Maybe not to diligently... I dunno. I am a robot today. #
- 02:05 Listening to Claudia kiss Ed in glorious... violence? I dunno. They wily! #
Your result for The Lover Style Profile Test...
The Classic Lover
50% partner focus, 48% aggressiveness, 50% adventurousness
Based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that:
You prefer your romance and love to be traditional rather than daring or out-of-the-ordinary, you would rather be pursued than do the pursuing and, when it comes to physical love, you concentrate more on enjoying the experience rather than worrying about your performance.
This places you in the Lover Style of: The Classic Lover.
The Classic Lover is a wonderful Lover Style, and is the closest it comes to the classic images of the princess in the tower, or the romantic and chivalrous knight, or the hero/heroine from a Disney film. The Classic Lover is a treasure to find, though it can be difficult to do so because they sometimes tend to be shy and/or difficult to successfully court.
In terms of physical love, the Classic Lover again can be shy, and often needs more in terms of emotional security to feel comfortable than some of the other Types. Given the right setting, and the right lover, the Classic Lover can be a delight in bed.
Best Compatibility can probably be found with: The Romantic Lover (most of all) or the Devoted Lover, or the Liberated Lover.
Congratulations!
If you enjoyed this test, I would love the feedback! Also, you might want to check out some of my other tests if you're interested in the following:
Nerds, Geeks & Dorks
Professional Wrestling
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
America/Politics
Thanks Again! -- THE LOVER STYLE PROFILE TEST
You prefer your romance and love to be traditional rather than daring or out-of-the-ordinary, you would rather be pursued than do the pursuing and, when it comes to physical love, you concentrate more on enjoying the experience rather than worrying about your performance.
This places you in the Lover Style of: The Classic Lover.
The Classic Lover is a wonderful Lover Style, and is the closest it comes to the classic images of the princess in the tower, or the romantic and chivalrous knight, or the hero/heroine from a Disney film. The Classic Lover is a treasure to find, though it can be difficult to do so because they sometimes tend to be shy and/or difficult to successfully court.
In terms of physical love, the Classic Lover again can be shy, and often needs more in terms of emotional security to feel comfortable than some of the other Types. Given the right setting, and the right lover, the Classic Lover can be a delight in bed.
Best Compatibility can probably be found with: The Romantic Lover (most of all) or the Devoted Lover, or the Liberated Lover.
Congratulations!
If you enjoyed this test, I would love the feedback! Also, you might want to check out some of my other tests if you're interested in the following:
Nerds, Geeks & Dorks
Professional Wrestling
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
America/Politics
Thanks Again! -- THE LOVER STYLE PROFILE TEST
- 17:34 Erica and Kristin and Ryan... soon Claudia and Ed... all sun. All love. All va-va-VOOM! #
- 14:05 Lemme say, for the record, I LOVE Michelle Obama. I have been watching her on The View over and over. This time, because Rye hasn't watched. #
- 14:05 Watching: YouTube - Michelle Obama on The View tinyurl.com/5azcla #
- 14:22 If you have not read Neil Gaiman's _American Gods_ you have done yourself a disservice. #
- 14:45 I am not doing what I mean to be doing... AGAIN! Time to check out transiting Mars and Natal Mars. #
- 14:45 I am not doing what I mean to be doing... AGAIN! Time to check out transiting Mars and Natal Mars. #
- 14:47 @harveymilk What do you see as the main properties of both? I mean, is there nothing taken from the former present in the latter? #
- 23:22 @harveymilk How does that relate to the power shift (still within the contexts of power over, right?) between the two generations? #
- 23:22 @amai_unmei .... annnnnnnnd *SNAP!* Sometimes, it's nice to know those kinds of things about one's self! #
- 23:54 Is it true... is there not a touch of insincerity in being a flirt? #
- 03:09 The relaxing, measured sound of Jos drinking water put me to sleeo. #
- 13:55 Finally took a shower in five minutes! Yay! Had to sacrifice washing my face, but I could live with that. Then drying off, I realized... #
- 13:55 that wasn't the ONLY place I forgot!!! *shakes head* It sucks being an outtie. #
- 13:55 Listening to: Cocteau Twins - Alas Dies Laughing tinyurl.com/56tlzd #
- 14:06 @FoxyTunesDJ: Danity Kane - Lights Out
YAY! Octavia Butler is bi or lesbian -- it has been tinyurl.com/659sxx # - 14:07 confirmed or at least accepted. tinyurl.com/5kekv2
YAY! She's quite firmly in my camp! # - 14:08 ... is it wrong that I am just learning Johnny Mathis is B/black right now? He was just floating in "of color" land without a home. #
- 14:09 Think: Paula Abdul #
- Music:Dan Fogelberg - Same Old Lang Syne
- 15:10 I hate when I have to go out into the world all dirty because I didn't budget my timing wisely and I'm STILL gonna be late! #
- 00:23 Pondering sleep, the wonderfulness of Xandi, my glorious weekend (ClEd were in the hizzouse!)... I should go curl up with that beautiful boy #
- 03:22 I hate when I don't know who the bigger jackass is. #
- 03:23 Also, I hate turbulent relationships with someone I am not having sex with -- people who live on argument are so childish. Go masturbate. #
- 01:06 ... who doesn't love a big dicked bottom? #
- 16:21 @FoxyTunesDJ: Hall & Oates - Wait For Me Oddly compelling soul ballad. Very oddly. tinyurl.com/yultet #
- 03:52 Will someone tell me how I managed to live all these years without having "Pleasure Principle" at hand???? #
- 03:55 Also, why did we forget that Janet is a studio artist? All construct, which is why I have to giggle when I think about her futuristic bent #
- 03:57 but listening to _Control_, which I fell in love with during the summer of 1986 in Wallace, SC on our enclosed backporch complete with faux #
- 03:58 grass (astroturf... but the cheap kind... does that word have any currency anymore? This is getting older... the language you rely on does #
- 03:58 not mean the way it used to... in fact, no one knows what you are talking about and it makes you feel like a fuddy-duddy... #
- 04:06 @ harveymilk Janet Jackson -- from Good Times! #
- 04:08 ... to finish... I fell in love with Control. I wanted to be that woman. Sometime to aspire? #
- 04:23 ... sometimes, I just feel too clever for most of the human race... and I don't think I am that clever. I know MUCH more clever people (Rye) #
- 04:24 "Baby, you can't hold me down! Baby, you CAN'T HOLD ME DOWN! After all the love that we've been through, after all you put me through #
- 04:25 "Love me. Yeah. LOVE ME!" Oh... I love me some "Pleasure Principle"! #
- 04:37 "nothing can touch body but body" - Lucretius #
- 04:47 "...materialism is the philosophy of the subject who forgets to take account of himself." - Schopenhauer #
- 16:50 This: tinyurl.com/5e6tbb made me need "Heal the World" by Michael Jackson. #
The Jewish joke... made me feel... not ok. No matter the preferencing, I found it sexist and racist.
... however... I just watched a straight man do a gay joke on tv that was actually... funny... just watch, you'll see... and if you don't find it funny... well, if you know me, you KNOW why I find this hysterical.
- Music:Lords Of The Underground - I Love Hip Hop
- 07:55 It dawns on me... the reason why I shouldn't use the f-word is because no matter how radical I am, the rest of the world is not. #
- 07:56 My sarcastic bitter ironic uses just go over people's heads. So, what am I heard as? Those gay people who hate "faggots" -- who have looked #
- 07:58 at little gender ambiguous (not that I don't sometimes settle -- gender is... "infinate matter everywhere moving") me. Fueling anti-trans #
- 07:59 bias and doctrine. I am not one of them. I have to let the word go. I am fine with that. It was used to oppress and used to oppress. Dead #
- 08:01 horse beating, anyone? Also, it sickens me the way white people, esp. gay, are about the word. Crucifixion depends on the skin color depth #
- 08:02 -- without giving a pass, this must've been what it looked like to Europeans in regards to "mixed/biracial" people in America during slavery #
- 08:03 -- you know... all these different ways of being, no standard or anything... wrong is wrong, yes, but that a p.o.c. uttering the f-word #
- 08:04 ... Shia LaBoef (ms?) dropped the f-bomb. Did you hear about it? Specialized media, perhaps... but where is the uproar that surrounded #
- 08:05 Isaiah Washington? That's all I'm saying. That kinda shit is... disabusing myself from using the f-word all raw creates the person I want #
- 08:06 to be while cutting me off from the people that reflect poorly on me. *shakes head* There's a voice in my head that states, "How B/black #
- 08:07 church of you!" But then I reminded myself that B/black churches are not monolithic and somewhere is the church I'd be welcomed... even if #
- 08:08 not in Seattle, and that would let me be in the number without trying to indoctrinate me. Yeah, church without god talk would suit me just #
- 08:09 fine. *shakes head* Still figuring that stuff out, yo. Wasn't raised a solo spiritual practicioner. Even though that stuff is so personal #
- 08:10 so subjective... it should be hard, I guess. But not all Christians think alike... and so on. Over-think alert! #
I wanted to say, for all your idealist out there with your ideas most other people don't understand and who aren't in a "school of higher learning" that it is so gratifying when you find something that articulates the ideas roaming around your head. Even if this book is... well, old, and the thoughts are probably considered severely antiquated, I love seeing that I am not the only person to have these kinds of thoughts and that other people wrote them down so I could ingest them and shit out something... productive? meaningful?
*shakes head*
Sun IS travelling through my first house, people!
*le sigh*
There are all sorts of reasons why that language is totally erroneous. In fact, you are all totally welcomed to discuss what's wrong or "problematic" with the usage of "minorities" in referring to people of color, but PLEASE by the GRACE of whatever higher or lower being you give allegiance to, PLEASE QUIT IT with "minority"!!!!!!
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stagger_lee77 and sorry Gems... everyone really... I am so BAD with birthdays...)An Open Letter to Certain White Women Who Are Threatening to Withhold
Support from Obama in November
Your Whiteness is Showing
By TIM WISE
This is an open letter to those white women who, despite their
proclamations of progressivism, and supposedly because of their
commitment to feminism, are threatening to withhold support from
Barack Obama in November. You know who you are.
I know that it's probably a bad time for this. Your disappointment at
the electoral defeat of Senator Hillary Clinton is fresh, the sting is
new, and the anger that animates many of you--who rightly point out
that the media was often sexist in its treatment of the Senator--is
raw, pure and justified.
That said, and despite the awkward timing, I need to ask you a few
questions, and I hope you will take them in the spirit of solidarity
with which they are genuinely intended. But before the questions, a
statement if you don't mind, or indeed, even if (as I suspect), you
will mind it quite a bit.
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- 17:16 Not saying I am in the most unconventional relationship in the world, but it is unconventional. I don't know if I have any real conventional #
- 17:17 relationships. And if I do, and certainly I must, I wonder what it all looks like from outside. #
- 08:17 When I look at personals for guys seeking sex with other guys, I find myself in awe. I don't know how they do it. How are they able to... #
- 08:19 not articulate, but pin-point what it is they want? I have such issues with "want". Product of my biggest childhood hurts, teaching myself #
- 08:21 not to want as a means of controlling/managing my fear when we were losing our house -- which is a slow, then urgent decline -- and I was #
A photography project... "I decided to capture images of my community in order to contribute towards a more democratic and representative South African homosexual history. Up until 1994, we as black lesbians were excluded from participating in the creation of a formal queer movement and our voices were missing from the pages of gay publications, while white gay activists directed the movement and wrote about gay issues and struggles. Hence, few of us were present in the forefront, but many operated underground."
- Music:Spoon - Vittorio E
- Music:Spoon - Vittorio E
You know how, generally, when we think about slavery in the US we think about it from the perspective of the South? This documentary reveals slavery in New England, that's the NE. I look forward to revising some of my received knowledge to reflect this reality. Watch the trailer and tell me this doesn't look like THE television event of the summer.
It will help.
This is the Scorpio full mon.
- Music:Isabel's Dream - It's Better With You
Fie on you cruel irony!
- 00:37 ... why do I wanna eat chicken and sausage bake (or whatever Nigella called it)... why am I up this late? #
- 01:04 Maybe my "problem" with Christians... there's no way I could honestly finish that sentence... not even in my own head. Sadness. #
- 18:06 Perhaps my worst trait is my inconsistancy.
Ambiguity has its faults.
That would be a fault of ambiguity. # - 21:45 Bless Gay Porn Blogs (tinyurl.com/5jekca) #
- 21:51 Francois Sagat is really fucking hot. Does it matter what he is doing? He's just... *giggles*... yeah.
Matthew Rush could have been of # - 21:52 interest if he just embraced his pretty boy without a brain aesthetic. People who can make fools of themselves are always the hottest. #
- 21:53 Tell me you don't agree...
tinyurl.com/59e2oq #
- 06:47 HAPPY BIRTHDAY KRIS, YAMI, TONI! Yeah, I know a grip of people born today -- all faves. #
- 10:25 YAY! It's all about Dim Sum with Sydney and Trettia! Then a Mariner's game and then (hopefully) hanging with Claudia and Ed. #
- 23:49 ... I want a real B/black president. One who can be himself and doesn't have to do strange post-race gyrations. Now I go to bed. #
- 23:53 1 min: Everything's been too Obama heavy. I haven't even been paying ol' girl any attention. Must fix that! #
I am tired of so-called straight people -- you know who you are. I am tired of you because sometimes, I want to tell stories about you and something we did together and give the context, but I can't because DADT or you're married to a woman now, or dating a woman. Why should I have to alter my truths and realities? Why does your "heterosexuality" get to trump my homosexuality?
- Music:Me'Shell Ndegéocello - Elliptical
- 13:24 I NEVER FOR ONE MINUTE thought that man was straight! AND there are a LOT OF OTHERS that need tinyurl.com/39gn57 #
- 13:24 to come on out and stop dickin' around! #
Sorry. The backstory:
"This store in Zhongli was originally called "Nigger King" and changed their name to this after a visit from the police (notice the "A" is slightly different). Now they're considering changing it again (maybe "Nagger King" is next?)
Btw, the Chinese name translates as "King of the Black People"."
- Music:Idlewild & Edwin Morgan - The Weight Of Years
- 22:26 I have been singing Mariah Carey's "Vanishing" a lot and remembering my teenagehood. It's nice to not be a teen and loose yourself #
- 22:27 in teen feeling. Oh, while it is on my mind. My school comp. blocks most every site -- like LJ. But I need to blog. (or Twit -- blocks that #
- 22:27 too) so, catch me here: kyooverse.blogspot.com/ -- now, back to the regularly scheduled program. #
- 00:30 Ever think about your exs? The "love of your life"? Revisit him and realize... ugh. I wanted to spend my life with THAT? Yeah, I'm happy. #
- 00:31 "Rusty owl vagina, let it be." Oh Ryan, I love you so much, you fool! #
- 10:04 I don't have a voice today from too much screaming (Nirvana's "Breed" -- it is like my FAVORITE song and I was WAY too happy...) #
- 10:05 In a moment, I need to get myself together *enough* to take my bike to the shop for a tune-up and then come on back home... we need to start #
- 10:06 our Spring Cleaning... Turns out when you need a new bed, the negativity leaks into the relationship in general. Thank you Myra Becker for #
- 10:07 dropping that knowledge... I hope Rye didn't re-ignite our sickness... that would suck. Today looks to be a beautiful day and I don't know #
- 10:08 how to take in all the beauty of it... all the potential majesty. #
What I am starting to notice is that there is a constant picking on the poor. Usually, picking on B/black poor, but also on white poor. However, today, the white poor did something I find positively ingenious. Of course, the forward was titled, "Redneck Mansion", but I see so many possibilities with it. Oh, and this is in Oklahoma.
( Redneck mansion )
- 04:26 I woke up for the second time tonight. Mostly due to some dream that told me to wash my hands. I did so and put away the dishes. I had half #
- 04:27 a mind to finish the plasticware, but eh. Michael wants to go bowling this weekend. I just wanna see Michael. But also, everyone's money's #
- 04:28 funny... but I gotta feeling he's exactly what the doctor ordered. Speaking of, I get to do a sleep study so, perhaps, I won't be waking up #
- 04:29 all night and sleeping so poorly... although we've pretty much decided our bed is too tiny for both of us to sleep comfortably with our two #
- 04:29 cats -- nevermind how lumpy and depressed our mattress is... #
- 04:30 More than likely, I am going to go back to bed and watch Michael Lucas' _The Intern_. I don't know why I am shocked by the production values #
- 04:31 and just how overall good his movies are, but this one is really good, too. Well acted, written, and fucked. #
- 00:38 Oh SHIT. My baby got me in check again. And I am HAPPY. Well, my food is perfectly tasteless and that's because I went off my old diet #
- 00:38 Salt crept back in... Welp... days are changing.
We need a new bed. What's bed shopping like? # - 07:41 I WILL make the bus today! I think I can! I think I can! Fukc... why isn't this posting?!
Acid tummy bloat be DAMNED! #